I am married to this guy now, but before we got married he asked his sister for permission to move his girlfriend in with him. He was living with his sister. So, I explained to him that his sister was wrong to move his woman in her apartment knowing that he and I were going to get married. I told him that his sister was wrong for that and there is nothing else she could tell me. He said that I am wrong, what else was his sister suppose to say and he is her brother? I beleive that she should not have allowed that when he was planning to marry me. I do not deal with the sister anymore or accept any of her phone calls, but he say that I am wrong and I should not do his sister that way. AM I WRONG?
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Wait, I'm confused, this is what I think you're saying...so before you guys got married and were engaged, your fiancé had his girlfriend (now is this just a friend that is a girl or a girl that he was also dating behind your back?)move in with him and his sister. Now you are mad at his sister for allowing him to have that girl move into their place? Just wanted to make sure that this is correct. Well I say that it's he who you should be upset at and not really his sister! Yeah maybe she is wrong for allowing this but you never know how it really went down unless you talk with her one on one. I would be pissed at her but at the same time she is not the one that you're in a relationship with! I say first find out her side of the story and then see how to go about the situation. If she was completely cool with it then just keep an eye out on her and know that you can't trust her. However, if she was just the man in the middle and felt like she couldn't do anything about it then give her another chance. But I would definitely have keep an eye out on your now husband...he seems suspect!0