- So you are engaged and have been in a serious relationship for a long time. You are happy, life is good and you are just going with the flow. However from time to time you are faced with the casual flirt! The don't mean anything by it flirt! Just a little attention from the opposite sex
So do you or don't you engage in the activity?
Is there a hard cut off for when it should or should not start or stop?
Can you realistically never partake in the casual flirt?
Most Helpful Girl
I don't find anything wrong with a little harmless flirting. I flirt all the time and my husband knows this. When I first got married I worked at a car dealership where I had to flirt to earn a living. The entire 36 months I was there I sold the most high end luxury vehicles every month. My husband is a very popular male model in our home town. Women find him attractive and that doesn't bother me one little bit. I think you have to know your mate and know what bothers them and what doesn't. Also, you have to know when to stop. I would never go so far as to go out to dinner with another man or accept gifts from another man. If you know that your flirting would hurt your mate then don't do it. The general rule of thumb is don't do anything when your mate is not there that you wouldn't do in front of their face.3