My ex who I dated for about 3 weeks is now dating a 22 year old guy, and the guy proposed to her yesterday. They were both drunk at the time, (She wasn't drinking until he came along) and she said yes.
I don't like the girl anymore, but I do care about her enough to try to make sure that she doesn't do anything to screw up the rest of her life. She has said that she doesn't want me to talk to her again, but I still want to say something without it sounding bad. Any suggestions?
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Since the two of you don't like each other, she probably won't want to listen to anything you have to say. Maybe try to talk to some of her friends or family members instead. If you really want to talk to her about it directly, try to be as polite as possible and not get emotional. Tell her something like "I know we've had our differences and we may not get along anymore but I still care enough to let you know that I don't think you're making the right decision." Give her some good non-emotional reasons why it would be a terrible idea for her to marry him.
Also, it's probably illegal for them to be together... not to mention highly inappropriate given the age difference, the drinking, and possibly (but hopefully not) the sex.