Im 3 months pregnant and my boyfriend of 3 years is very supportive we are planning on moving in together and do all the things necessary to be ready for the baby but people keep questioning our commitment to one another (I mean we are committed enough with the baby right?) they say we should get married..i personally don’t want to. He has been married before and Marriage was something we wanted but not under the pressures of having a baby. Do I have to get married? What works for other might not work for me is this okay?
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Im rather biased in my view as I believe in no sex before marriage etc so this situation wouldn't happen to me, BUT I respect the fact that you have been together for aslong as you have been and you are putting the needs of your child first. There is no need like you said to get married now under pressure, especially if you do want to get married, but at a better time. A wedding ring isn't going to make either of you any more or less committed if you had an unfaithful attitude, but I don't think either of you do. It really doesn't make sense to marry at this time because of other peoples views, you have enought to deal with having a baby to prepare for. Congratulations by the way :)2
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