Married people : have you ever felt that you made the wrong choice ?
I love my husband and all, but sometimes I feel that he is not up to my expectations..I know we are all imperfect, but should I leave him and look for someone who is even higher than my expectations ? He says I am a lot better than he wanted from a girl..however, the guy in my mind is him, but with some additional stuff ..
I know this is lame but for example I get turned off really fast if his hair doesn't smell clean.. or his fingers look untidy, or I get the vibe that he doesn't shower several times a day .. I am a clean freak I know .. but I don't know .. should I be concerned about these stuff ?
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Have you thought about talking to a shrink about your cleanliness issues? Does your husband stink? Does he have bad hygiene? Happily married people (I speak from experience -- my own) like each other and don't let minor annoyances bug them. You CAN'T let minor annoyances bug you -- "Until Death you do part" could be a LOOOOOOOOONG time!2