She brings it up 10 times a day at least. Has had her mother cal me several times. She's driving me nuts.. without the pressure I loved her. what's wrong with me? am ii a commitment phobe? Do I maybe not love her fully? What should I do/say. Has anyone else had any experience in a similar situation?
I think she's bluffing but there might be some truth to what she said to an extent. What to I say to her in response to this..
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First of all, she needs to stop. Someone needs to explain to her that you do not want to push your husband into marriage. It happens all the time, and when he's not ready, it is ALWAYS a problem. Seriously, does she want to marry a man she has to BUG to say yes? Who wants that? That's like giving yourself a gift or throwing yourself a party. It's nigh on meaningless.
I think you two need to sit down and talk. Actually talk things out and express yourselves. WHY don't you want to get married? What about it scares you so much? Do you see yourself staying with her forever - or is there doubt there? Why does she need you to commit so badly? If this is causing tension - and it is - there is a lack of communication that needs to be fixed. Best of luck!0
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