I am 18 and my boyfriend is 20. Tonight he told me that he wants to have kids in 2 years(which isn't going to happen because I don't think that we would be ready). He wants to get married like in the summer though, I mean I feel like that would be too soon though. July will be our one year anniversary, so we have been together for enough time where we are completely open with each other and comfortable. I do plan on marrying him eventually, but I don't know if I should so soon. I don't really feel like he's trying to rush things though.
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If you're not ready for marriage, you're not ready, and if you;re not ready, it's too soon. Period. This is not something you rush into. This is not something you wanna force. This is not a decision you should take lightly. Same goes doubly for kids, so if he can't handle that, trust me, you're better off without him. You should sit him down and talk about this with him, and spell it out for him. Make it very clear.
Yeah, this stuff is serious. So I wish you the best of luck with your situation.3