if you think you never will get married, why?
if you really want to get married, why?
if you don't want to get married, why?
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I want to be married someday before I turn 30. I dream for my perfect girl who I will fall in love with and share the rest of my life with. I could care less about the wedding day, because the wedding day does not compare to the lifetime I will spend with my love. Girls who know anything should dream about the perfect husband: not the perfect wedding. Because you can have a perfect wedding, and you can marry a real asshole on the same day!
But I think girls who want to get married and dream about the prefect wedding day don't understand marriage. A marriage is about living the rest of your life with one other person. The wedding is only one day, but a marriage lasts a lifetime (or a good one does anyway). And it is about sharing your life with your one true love. Nobody should focus on any one day that defines the marriage, because that it a complete misconception.
And the wedding day also should not be the happiest day of a girl's life. Because if that is true, then after your wedding, your life is downhill from there. If the wedding is the happiest day of your life then what the hell do you have to look forward to after the wedding? I guess the wedding day being the happiest day of a girl's life ends up being a reality for many girls anyway, because many married couples are miserable together.
I said everything above with respect to xxangel199oxx's post. HA ha ha!0