If you first met your husband who lived a long distance and decided to live together, I'm sure the wife made the husband live in her hometown instead of his. He shouldn't always be a pushover.
I beat it was the wife's idea to live together, because if he wanted to live with her, she'll either say "no" or "I don't know well see", even though they are in a relationship and plain on getting married.
I beat the wives are always allowed to tease by saying little bit of bad things about their husbands, but he can't say something bad about her.
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In my opinion marriage is a partnership, not a dictatorship. I'd love to hear his opinion on things even if they weren't what I wanted, I would make a decision so we would both be satisfied. If his job was in his hometown and he really enjoyed it then I would happily go along with him and find something I to enjoyed where we were. I'm sure he'd do the same for me vice versa. Or if we couldn't decide on where to live, his hometown or mine I would ask him about just getting a place in the middle of them both. If you really love each other it shouldn't be hard compromise.0