I was pressured into getting engaged by girlfriend and her family..
Due to overwhelming pressure I agreed. Now that I have had time to think about it on a clear mind, I see things are unpractical and some compatibility issues. I want to break it off. I just don't know how to do it. The cards have already been printed out for an engagement dinner which is supposed to be held next week. Can anyone help give me advice on this..
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I would make sure you sit down and talk to her as soon as possible. It's not right that someone pressures you into getting engaged. Choosing to get engaged is supposed to happen when the couple is ready, not when someone feels it's been a long enough time now and things need to move along.
Getting engaged is about love, and if you are already having doubts, get out now! Just because the cards are printed doesn't mean you have to go through with it. Think about it, is the cost of the cards really worth a life time of regret? I don't think so, the big problem here is that you don't want to marry this person and you need to let her know.