Really. My girlfriend is smart and funny. So I don't have problems with that myself.
But many of my buddies had married really stupid girls, and a few years later they are so unhappy in their marriages. Some of them don't even want to come home because there's this boring wife waiting for them. My point is: if you feel she's not interesting, do you hope she'll get more interesting later in marriage?
Sex is always secondary. So are her cooking skills.
On the other hand, my best friend's parents are the happiest couple I ever met. They are together for more than 30 years. She's an intelligent woman, always interesting to talk to. She never bothers about houseworks. I'm not saying there's a big mess in their house, she just is not maniacal about dust or clean curtains whatever.
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Well, a successful marriage isn't based on the intelligence of one but rather the compatibility. It sounds like your friend and his wife were not, which is why their marriage failed. Before people make the commitment to get married they need to think is this person right for me? Am I satisfied with him/her both on a physical/mental level? Do we have the strength to overcome any/everything together (great communicators)?1