I've known this guy for less then a year. Have been, "dating" him for only 5 or so months. The thing is, we're supposed to be friends with benefits- but sometimes he calls me his girlfriend. I just shrug it off. But lately he's been talking about proposing to me, and how he wants to be with me every night. I can't help but feel that we don't know each other well enough yet.
So guys, is this a phase? Is he kidding?
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Only you can decide on if it's 2 soon. I've been off and on with my boy for almost a year now and this is the 4th time we dated and so far its only been 2 months, but I know he's the one for me because we have so much in common and he's my best friend. If you think you guys need to get to know each other more, then get to know him. Maybe he has decided that your who he wants and if he really is serious about you then if you tell him you want to get to know him before you go that far that shouldn't make him want to change his mind about proposing maybe he will just hold off for awhlie until he knows your ready. Don't rush things that's the worst thing you can do, just take everything slow and get to know each other that's what a relationship is. There is many boys out there that don't know what they want, but if he's a man and knows your who he wants then he will take as much time as you need.! Good luck hun :)1