idk maybe I've been reading too many chad kultgen books, but it seems like a lot of guys get trapped into marriage, they get locked in by a girl, not all girls, but it seems as if it happens more often than not and at a young age too ... ?
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How many people do you know in real life that are "trapped" in a marriage? Girl got pregnant and forced a guy to marry them? Girl gave an ultimatum and forced a guy to marry them? Where are you getting your "more often than not"? From the people around you, from the ubiquitous friend of a friend?
I've never known a woman who trapped a man into marrying them. I've know men so caught up in the relationship they rushed into marriage. I've known women who felt ready for marriage after a week in a relationship. But no one is forcing men to propose to their girlfriends. Most men I know actually broke off the relationship when given an ultimatum. People don't suffer from the same social stigma that they did in the past with sex before marriage, or pregnancy out of wed lock. Daddies don't chase Junior with a shot gun anymore so why would a guy feel pressured into proposing if he had sex with a girl or got her pregnant?
I'm just baffled by the opinions that are formed out of thin air. Most married couples I know, me included, wanted to spend the rest of their lives with the person they were dating, so they got married. It doesn't always work out the way it's imagined but there is a lot less drama than you're making it out to be.0