Not too long ago, I was talking with my girlfriend of 3 months, and she made a comment about our engagement and marriage photos. I told her that I am glad that I never told her how I was going to propose to her, because she might be the one. She then got upset with me, saying that she felt that I felt unsure, and thought that we were meant to be together. In all honesty, I really want us to get married, but at 3 months, there is still a lot to be learned. I hear one should wait about 2 years before popping the question. In the past, even she has seemed "unsure," saying things like "you never know." So my question is, why did she get upset all of a sudden, and what can I do to "fix the damage?" Thanks
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You have not done anything wrong and there is nothing to fix.
3 months in to a relationship is way way to early to be worried or thinking about marriage. Just talk to her and let her know that you love her and that you enjoy being with her. Tell her that it is too early to be thinking about that and explain how you feel.
It is her who has the problem and is over reacting and she needs to realise that it is too early for anything like that. If she loves you and cares about you she will understand and deal with it.
Marriage comes in time, when you know the person well, when you know them inside out, how they feel, what makes them happy and sad, when you can see yourself spending the rest of your life with them, but not 3 months in to a relationship.3