consider this a gift for you girls, something to have a blast with.
i don't have an ideal wedding planned, I won't plan that till I have a girl to marry.
BUT, I'm hoping there's lots of weed, video games, music and drinking. and a pool. ooo and cute puppies and kitties running around everywhere! :D
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I'm not dead set on any of this, but if my guy was alright with not being super traditional, this is what I see my wedding being similar to...
I don't want a traditional white wedding dress very much, simply because the message behind wearing white most likely wouldn't apply, and I look terrible in white. I'd prefer a gothic style dress with a corset on top, or maybe a medieval style dress with long drapey sleeves - mainly black with some dark purple designs or fabric to blend with it. I'd want the same colors on my guy, obviously. And the bridesmaids and groomsmen would wear combinations of black and dark red. It would be kind of a Nightmare Before Christmas/Vampire theme - but I'll try to resists actually wearing my custom fit fangs. If not that, then we can have a Beauty and the Beast theme, although I don't think I look that great in yellow.
I'd like to get married either at a botanical garden or on home plate at Busch Stadium in St. Louis, Missouri as I'm a huge Cardinals fan...or maybe in front of a gothic type cathedral to fit with the wardrobe style. I'd prefer not to get married inside a church because I'm not religious and churches just make me uncomfortable for some reason. The location isn't extremely important to me, but I'm just trying think outside the box here.
As far as guests go, I don't want a huge wedding. Only the most important people in our lives. I might send out announcements to other people, but I only want those who are most special to me to actually be there. Sorry if that sounds stuck-up, but it's supposed to be my day and I don't want to deal with people I don't like.
The reception is the thing I haven't really thought about yet. Probably just have it at some close friend or family member's house that's large enough, and just have everyone dress casual and chill... we can still do all the speeches and dances and whatnot.1