My husband caught me performing an intimate act with two of his friends and his brother. We have not spoken for nearly a week and he is furious with his brother. My brother-in-law has told me that he is going to tell my husband what I have been secretly doing while we have been married unless I give him money. I don’t know what to do. I cannot afford to give him much money and if he tells my husband my secrets our marriage will be over.
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Part of me wants to tell you that you get what you deserve but as you said, we all make mistakes. In all honesty, can you live with yourself and your husband for the rest of your life without telling him all that you've done? I mean you were with three guys! Its not fair to your husband at all to quiet everybody and keep what youve done from him forever, that stuff has a way of eating at you from the inside too. Perhaps it's best he tells your husband what happened, at least you need to at some point. I'm not sure what to say about him blackmailing you. That's f***ed up on his part and I wouldn't give him any money. You HAVE to tell your husband all that you've done, you're hurting yourself, him, and the marriage by keeping it all to yourself.1