I'm only 18 so I'm not engaged or anything, but when I settle down, I don't want to get married(unless it's REALLY important to him) but I still want a ring and I'd give him a ring. It could be the equivalent of a wedding ring.
I already know which ring I want
I want the tiffany setting 2.5 carat white gold
or a Yurman
I want something classic but of really good quality. I'd get him a ring too if he wanted, but I want a ring
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LOL it does fly smack in the face of tradition, which sometimes that's a good thing. You'll probably find no shortage of guys wanting a similar arrangement, no marriage, but not a many wanting to fork out the ring, because for lots of those guys, the appealing part of not getting married is NOT having to buy her a ring. So, cohabitating without marriage is normal and 'logical' (not that I think logic applies in this situation, reasonable would be my choice of words but anyway), expecting a ring still is not common and would probably put off many guys.
Still, there are probably guys out there willing to do that (not me lol, but then in her country rings are not exchanged anyway), so your wish is not all that 'out there'.
Now, if you wanted a big wedding, without getting married, that would be crazy illogical lol.0
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