Ok so my fiance and brother were talking one day (mind you they don't know each other very well cause my brother don't live to close to me to see him very often) but I had walked away so they could have some guy talk about what ever and I heared my brother say stick one thinking there talking about baseball then I heared my my brother tell my fiance stirck 2 one more screw up coment your gone and won't be in my sisters life so 5 min later I go out to rejoin the conversations and they seemed fine and everything
Well I asked my fiance later on after my brother was gone why he got 2 stricks with my brother and they were really stupid then about a week later I had gone to visit my mom and brother and my brother only said if my fiance makes one more coment like he did he will break up with him for me.
So what should I do to get my brother chill out about my fiance? Or should I just tell him to back off and let it go
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Well lets put it this way. Your brother is sticking up for you and MAY have your best interest at heart. However unless you get more details on what was said you have no idea who is in the right.
From one angle you need to tell your brother to stay out of your personal love life. You are a woman who can make her own choices even if you don't know how to use a proper sentence.
From another angle your fiance may have disrespected you to your own brother. You either need to address this with your man or dump him. Do not marry a guy who does not respect you even if it feels like your heart will stop.
In this case get more information and then make a rational not emotional decision on what to do next.0