Or fantasized about it at some point in your life?
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lol- I kind of joke about marrying rich so I can live my dream of travelling and writing, but I never take it seriously.
In the first place- I would NOT make a good trophy wife, I'm independent, out-spoken, and definitely not always the polished lady. Any guy I married would have to accept it and love me as I am, so wealth has never been a primary characteristic when I'm considering my "ideal" husband.
And in the second- I've always been a self-sufficient person. I paid my way through university, paid to travel Europe (on the cheap lol) for a summer, and I'm paying my way through grad school. I can't tell you the last time I ASKED anyone to pay for anything, and I very rarely accept people paying for me either. Basically- I've always had my own money, so I don't need someone else's. It's just not in my nature to want or need someone else to support me. I plan on having a career I can support myself with (hence the grad school), so marrying a rich guy doesn't factor in.
And, last- I just don't think I'd ever fit into that world. I grew up a rural blue-collar girl and I never feel I quite fit into high society when I'm there. I can pull off the elegant little black dress fine, I just don't ever feel quite at home. My rich husband probably would, so it wouldn't work.
Give me a husband who works for a living and can help me make a home for us and our family, maybe with a little extra so I can have a dog and cat, and I'm good.0