I was with him 3 years , we started planning marriage for next year. but I realized I wouldn't be happy with him,
I broke up with him. But he became very depressed, his family and friends are telling me that he looks terrible, never goes out, is always sad.. and how could I do it
And he calls me telling how I hurt him, ,that he loves me, he will change everything I want.
And that I could have told him earlier ,before engagement that I'm not sure, or why I was 3 years with him ..
I feel so guilty that I can't sleep at nights, and I think about it all the time, his calls makes my cry . I don't know what should I do to get over it? am I really so bad?
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If you didn't want to marry him, then you did the right thing You shouldn't let other people's convenience decide how you live your life. This is one of the most important steps you will ever take, so make sure it feels right FOR YOU.
And he would be hurt more if you divorced later. You have spared him a lot of pain by making the decision NOW.
Do you think he can really change himself so hat you'd feel differently about marrying him? Again, don't let his family and friends bully you into changing your mind. Make sure YOU really believe he will change what you don't like.1