I am engaged to my fiance and the topic of his bachelor party has recently come up. I really feel uncomfortable and insecure with him going to a strip club and ogling other naked women. I never thought that they were that bad until about 6 months ago. I was completely naive to what exactly happened in strip clubs ( I've never been to one, nor do I have any desire to go). I had thought that the women danced in tiny bikinis, not naked and possibly did girl on girl action.
My question is, why do men, who are happy in their relationship, like this? If your girlfriend or fiance is enough for you why is there a desire to watch other women? Is this not disrespectful to her?
How do other girls out there feel about their boyfriends/fiance's or husbands going and ogling naked women?
How do I express my feelings about this without sounding like I'm trying to control him or accusing him of things.
Most Helpful Girl
Because they're perverts , But if you don't want him to go to strip clubs let him know. If he doesn't agree he can hit the highway . Distant is wrong , You guys are not dating your engage which leads to marriage . That has to be respected, Your not being insecure or controlling if you tell him not to . I wouldn't put up with it. Someone once said but this is referring to married couples, Never put yourself in a position to be tempted .7
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