My husband of 9 years told me 3 months ago that he was not happy and he moved in with a neighbor. He works out of town m-f and has started seeing a girl he met through work. We actually talk more now that before we even talk about her. We have a 9 month old baby and just bought our first house 5 months ago. I do t believe he really wants a divorce. His brother died 4 months ago and I believe he is maybe having an early mlc. I love him more than anything and I want to stand by him through anything he is going through. He tells me he has feelings for this girl and she is good to him but he also says there are things about her that are not good. He doesn't know he comes to my house and spends time with me and our son. He has been flirting with me and talking to me everyday lately when she is not with him. Is he starting to feel like he made a mistake but struggling with hurting her feelings? I really want to be a family again but I mostly want him and my son to be happy.
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I think you're way too nice. I would not have any communication with by separated spouse while knowing they had someone else on the side. As if things were not complicated enough with just you two having problems! You will know when his feelings have changed, and he realizes how big of an idiot he is...when he tells you he's an idiot, and asks to come back home, while attending marriage counseling with you. If he doesn't do ALL 3 things...then he's just playing.1