Why do hoes get the good guys?
I'm a 20 yr. old virgin and I have not found a decent guy that is into me.Yet girls who been around town lands the good guys.They get everything they want and a marriage proposal.And I don't get even get a damn thing from a guy except what he have in is pants and I don't want that stale sh*t.I'm not understanding this.The singer Omarion married a bisexual stripper.Okay he's a good guy yet a dumb one.Why is all the guys looking past a girl like me to only be married to a girl who sleeps around.
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Same here I am a virgin, but I think it has nothing to do with guys liking the slutty girls and not the nice girls al the time. It has to do with a guy liking a girl no matter what kind of a girl she is a slut or virgin. Its what a guy found attractive about her, a girl can sleep around but I don't think it makes her a slut, as long as she doesn't just sleep with everyone but when is in a meaningful relationship. I think the "slutty" girls are just less conservative and just don't take everything so seriously they just have fun and do w/e they want and don't care what people think. Just have fun and forget about the whole good guy, bad guy, nice girl, sluts w/e people are people you just have to find the right guy, and the moment you stop categorizing people and judging and just living your life you will find someone when you least expect it.
What Guys Said 1
hey Beautiful, I don't understand. I tried being a nice guy and it seems like women only want bad guys. I'm the same way you are nice , and very respectful. the only thing we can do sweetheart is to keep being the way we are and in time we will find someone. I believe people think nice people are not exciting enough. please don't stop being yourself because the love you find find will like the person you are not. Always be yourself no matter what. Have fun, enjoy life and you will be fine Trust me. Have a good day
What Girls Said 4
Maybe you should stop looking at your virginity as a prize. I mean, I congratulate you for waiting this long, obviously if you are 20 and still a virgin it must mean something to you and I'm glad you have respect for your body and don't give it away to the first man who smiles at you. BUT it does not make you better than anybody. You will find the right guy for you. I'm in the same situation, I'm 20 and still a virgin. Most guys who are dating "hoes" are not looking for what you are looking for. If you got that guy you would probably be disapointed.
Omarion is hardly a good guy. Of course none of us know him personally but he is in the Hollywood life. That is different than the real world. Most people in the industry live fast and have probably been turned out (that's supposedly how you get connections and sh*t). So don't go buy that cute little B2K image lol because he is supposedly bisexual anyway. Don't think that's what you want.
You will find the right guy for you it just might take a while. Most guys our age are not stunnin virgins when they could be with girls who are giving up the goods like candy.
i think a lot of stupid girls ruin good guys and I always seem to get the ones who have just had a girl ruin them and break their hearts so that in return they do that to me ...a girl being a slut has nothing to do with getting a good guy..the guy obviously isn't a good one if he goes for the town hooch. good guys like nice girls not sluts
I'm thinking your singleness has more to do with your judgmental outlook and bitterness. Why would any man want to date a woman who can't take responsibility for herself and blames her problems on everyone else? It's easy to insult and insinuate than to turn the mirror onto yourself - but it says a lot about YOU when men prefer to marry the "slut" than even date you.
Hopefully one day you'll figure it out, but better make it soon before you end up a dried up crusty old maid.
This is not true. You have to stop thinking that just because a girl isn't a virgin, she's a "ho." There is more to attraction than a woman's purity. If you are not landing the good guys, so to speak, it goes beyond sex. Decent guys want to feel a connection; they look for intelligence, maturity, responsibility. It doesn't sound like you are quite there...judging by your rather bitter post.