My Ex-Fiance called off the wedding 9 weeks before our wedding date.
It was a clash of a thousand different problems and family's way to involved in the situation. I don't want to get back together with him, I'll say that straight up.
We are meeting up to just talk through a few things so that we can both get a bit of closure...or at least understand what went wrong.
My Ex regretted calling off the wedding. I know that much. It was a heat of the moment thing (cold feet, pressure at work ect.) that went to far.
So what I need advice on. Do you even think that meeting up is a smart idea? I've made my peace with not really knowing what happened, or why he called of the wedding. I don't think that I can actually learn anything of value from this meeting.
So...do I go and see what he has to say...or not?
Biggest jerk ever. I don't know how I almost ended up marrying him. I am so glad that I saw him and talked to him. Its good to know that I really had moved on. I'd say that I wish him all the best in life...but that is a lie! lol.
He asked where we went from our meeting - see as we live on the same side of town. I told him straight out...nothing! I said "I've spent the last 4 months building a life without you in it. You don't fit back in."
Go me XD
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Its on you, if you made your closure and your decision is set in stone, than you have nothing to worry about.
Some Closures can open up New Paths, Just remember your main reason if you show up. Stay Strong and Positive.0