I really want to but it seems most girls now a days sleep around and hook up. It has me a little discouraged that I am living in the wrong age now that so few share my values.
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i feel like you make sex into a much bigger deal in the relationship by placing so much importance on virginity and waiting.
like people looking for virgins say it's about having a deeper relationship than just sex, but then why is it the sexual past of your partner such a big deal to you? you might walk past your soul mate because you were more concerned in finding a girl who'd wait for her wedding night than a girl who is actually the most compatible for you.
personally I don't see why the number pertaining to someones sexual past should be very important, that's not a moral issue to me, I care that they were honest and didn't cheat, and used protection, those things tell me about a persons character, the mere number of people they've slept with is completely irrelevant to me.1