I mean, I'm no scrub but I can't help but to think about marriage one day. Maybe its because I've never had a family kind of aspect in my life and I guess its me wanting to prove myself that I can do it? I don't know why but lately when I meet a girl and start to get to know her my automatic thought is...Could I marry this girl, would she make a good mother? Is this weird?
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Definitely not weird at all. It's quite normal for a guy to think about that when he initially meets a girl, especially if someday he would like to get married.
It's usually best to get to know someone before you marry them, sometimes that means getting to know them as a friend first, then moving into a relationship and then the marriage part.
I don't think you should feel that your feelings are weird. Because I can guarantee you that they are not :) Especially when a guy gets a little older, mid-twenties and on, it becomes more and more common.
When I was about 18, I started thinking about marriage. Not that I wanted to get married at that moment, but I knew that if I wanted a successful marriage I needed a good foundation. So whenever I met a guy, I would assess his qualities based on what would be best if we were thinking long-term.
I've never been one to just date a guy for a short period of time and then move on. So I would try to pick guys who had good qualities.
Everyone gets to that point eventually if marriage is what they want. Plus everyone gets to this point at different ages, so don't feel bad if your friends aren't at that stage yet!0
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