So I got her number - now what do I do with it? Call her up and say what?
I want to date her, and see where it goes from there.
- You may assume I met her at a say the library, after a class or at a club- like where I only have had a couple of minutes to talk and want to know more
- I liked what EasyEC said, about mentioning something unique about that girl when you call her next - so what topics that usually set girls apart ? - it must be something that I can ask her in 2 minutes of meeting her
- another quick note, when leaving responses, please don't be vague and say "low-pressure activity" (need specifics). Examples I already know: movie, bowling, dinner, museum, going to the park/swings (apparently that is popular?!)
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You should slow it down a notch lol You just got her number I wouldn't jump in too seriously you might get hurt. Wait a couple days so she doesn't think you're too desperate then call her. See how she's doing and ask her if she would like to go out to dinner or to something more casual such as bowling. Let her decide. Let her be the one to show you how much attention she wants. Go off of what she does. If she calls you or seems to want to talk everyday after then its ok, but no more then once for you.1