Is it a turn off to guys if girls want to wait until marriage to have sex? What's the best way to go about telling a guy that?... or Is it a turn off if you find out a girl is a virgin? What's the best way for a girl to tell a guy that she's a virgin?
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Not to me. I'm waiting until after marriage. If people did this more often, then there would be fewer relationship issues and people would be more mature about relationships (due to the older age). If people waited until after marriage for sex, then they would more likely be focusing less on looks than character and personality, and people would not cheat as much.
Everybody has a first time. It is better for the girl to be a virgin than for the girl to have slept with a bunch of different guys.
The best way for a girl to tell a guy that she is a virgin is just that. Communication. There is no mincing words and trying to go around it. If the girl feels that she needs to tell him, then she should just tell him. But she doesn't need to tell him. She can also just not say anything.5
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