Although in todays age their wqy of living and attitude towards sex and life still is like a taboo to me, they can get in live in relationships, open for sex, but why not that eager for marriage, is it because they think of settling down with a single man for whole life boring?, is it because a single man can't satisfy their sexual urge?, is in west everything just about sex? No love emotion and caring for one other?
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I find this question making sweeping assumptions and slightly offensive, but I accept how this may be the impression given my some women.
I think marriage is very final, in the sense that you have to want to spend the rest of your life with someone and have enough faith in that to enter into a legally and/or spiritually binding relationship with them. An increase in divorce rates and feeling unprepared or not yet ready to commit and enter such a relationship are but a few reasons why marriage may not be undertaken.
Why does marriage have to happen just because someone loves and cares for someone? That's an equally fair question. Who says that marriage is the way to prove love and emotion and care exists?
You sound like the kind of person who spouts all this "nice guys finish last" business. There is love and care and emotion everywhere in the west. I see it in and around all of my friends and family. Living together without marriage is more socially acceptable now, so there's no reason to enter into such a binding commitment prematurely. With the lifespan of people increasing by the year too, what's the rush? Why the hurry to get married? Is that necessary in love?2
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