I know some girls who get to a certain point in a relationship - usually a certain number of years (whether good or bad) and then tell their boyfriends that they either need to break up and get married.
The guys don't want to do either but then they marry the girl (even though they didn't want to) just because they didn't want to break up.
Time goes on and they realize that they did not want to be married and especially not to that girl then they either split up or he just cheats on her excessively.
Have you done this?
Why do you do this?
Do you think this is actually going to lead to a successful marriage?
Did your marriage last?
After a few years, are you still wanting to be married to him?
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the couple should have discussed this way earlier. no need for ultimatums (sp?) if communication is clear.1