A friend of mine got married on June 1st and since then it's had
me thinking about stuff like this. I was thinking, looking back
I've never thought about the wedding day. I mean, I've thought about
the honeymoon and where we'd go (hopefully somewhere tropical!)
I've thought about the wedding night and what it would be like, but
other that I've never thought about the wedding and all the details
to go with it.
I usually think about the marriage itself and what that would be
like. I think about what the house would look like, what cars we have, furniture
we'd pick out, the bills we'd have to pay, our kids and what we would
name them, what it would be like to be pregnant, if my dog that I have now
would live with us or stay with my parents, would my in-laws like me,
would I like them lol, what it would like to share a bed with someone and
not have to sleep alone anymore, what we'd watch on TV together,
if I'd be good cook,etc etc. I think about a lot of the day to day stuff
and what that would be like. And, us being there for each other and
just everything! I don't know if I'll ever get married, I just don't know anymore.
It doesn't seem possible, like it use to.
Anyway, what matters most to you? And, why?
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Of course the marriage. It's the rest of my life. But it won't be such a mystery like you describe. I won't be marrying anyone I haven't lived with for a few years so all that stuff is known. I do wonder about what property I'll buy and how I will furnished it but seen as I don't know if I'll marry then it's my dreams not a marriage dream. I think I'm more likely to own a property of my own before I marry. Why don't you figure some of these things out on your own. They are not all dependent on marriage. For example, you wonder if you'll be a good cook. You are at least 25. You should know this by now unless someone has been feeding you. Don't pin your dreams on other people. You'll do yourself no favors. If you can't make yourself happy then nobody can and you won't be able to make anyone else happy either. Focus on yourself and your independence. When you least expect it you might meet the guy who answers the remaining questions.0