Would you give up custody of your own child? If your new spouse ask you to do so. You on the other hand have accepted their child from a previous relationship. Even so your new spouse gives you the silent treatment for days. If you even dare to mention your child's name. When the phone rings and your child is calling. You are to ignore it completely. You were already married but, this was causing an issue in your marriage. Your spouse insisted you choose between your marriage or your child. This also happens to be an international marriage. Would you say this a controlling situation in their marriage. Could this be a truly a healthy marriage based on love. I would think if one spouse accepts your child. Then the other spouse should accept your child as a package deal also. Is this a fair marriage. Thank you for your comments before hand.
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Parent and child are a package deal.
You can't chose to be with one and not the other.
Anyone who doesn't get that, doesn't love you.2