my best friend is engaged to her boyfriend. She spend 3000 everymonth on him. He don't acknowledge her at all unless she say something about it. I been seeing him kissing and hugging other girls besides her. She moved in November and they began dating. He bought the ring and it was too big and she said it was all they had in the store. I use to think there is a ring for all size fingers. She's bragging about it and of course people are trying to tell her he's using her. He don't wear the ring. He don't converse with her family. I found it odd that he gave her the ring a week before she deploy. but he told me the ring is for security purposes to see if she gonna send him money while deployed but he's not going to marry her at all. he said he wanted the money. He flirts with so many women. She hasn't even met his whole family nor has he told anybody. his mom know it a fake to. But why would someone not get the hint of all this? I never known a person to buy a ring and its too big for their finger, when there are other rings to buy. She constantly be a house slave and spend at least 3000 a month on him.you make it she pays. I'm use to people running on Facebook celebrating but not him. He don't mention nor add pictures of her and his past relationship picture are still up but he refuse to take them down. This guy kisses and have sex with so many females. Have nobody said anything about this like normal engaged couples do.when somebody is engaged they will tell the world. It's only her bragging about it and he stay on social networks all day. She has to ask him to be active on her page.
Most Helpful Guy
She's obviously being manipulated and if you tell her, she probably won't believe you and she'll get angry at you rather than see the truth. That's how manipulated people behave.
If you want to pursue convincing her any further, you may risk your friendship.
It's sad. I had a friend who was so awesome in high school until she met a guy who cheated on her and treated her like dirt. She spent thousands of dollars on upgrades for his car, on the promise that they will share that car together when they get married. He dumped her and she was crushed. And then she decided to act exactly like him and take advantage of guys.0