I am a bit curious. (This goes for guys and even lesbians)
Would you approach or show interested in a girl who is wearing an engagement ring, and even sometimes wear it along with a married band on her left ring finger?
>>>My mother gave me her engagement ring and wedding band as a gift when I graduated from 8th grade, and I've been wearing it since then; I am now 21, and I have been wearing it since I am 13 years old. I am not engaged, never have had a boyfriend, and I am far away of getting married for at least 4 years minimum.
If you ask me why do you wear it then?
Well, I've heard of stories of "promise rings," so back then I personally/secretly decided to use it as my "own promise ring," a promise to the goals in life that I want to achieve before getting into a serious relation and getting married. I have had guys asking me about it, I just tell them it's a promise ring. I say nothing more.
My parents have never questioned this action.
I know that with this I some-how push people away, and I understand the consequences, but I am not ready for dating. In fact, people who know me have never seeing me attached to any one.>>>
I just want your views... I just want to know what others think about it. Feel free to share, your honest comments will not offend me.
Thanks for all your comments.
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I would think the guys who would are the ones you don't want to be dating.
If you feel you must wear them, I'd suggest wearing them on your right hand.5