I truly think that there is a HUGE distinction between love and sex. I've had sex with a lot of people, loved none of them except maybe a few in different ways but none were "true love."
If I had a husband I think I'd want an open marriage - he's with me for love/stability and with others to play and I would have the same opportunities as long as it was just here and there and not a constant sort of thing...
What do you think? I think it's more realistic that way - think of how many marriages wouldn't end in divorce and the countless others wouldn't be ruined when the scorned partner didn't leave.
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I understand that you view things from a different perspective, that's okay.
However, most people (including) me don't see a distinction between love and sex. They are intertwine and are both very important to work together and to keep a relationship alive. Marriages are about two people being committed to each other, in love and sex, for life (hopefully). If you want open relationships, find someone else that does. Otherwise, most guys would be VERY offended that you are totally cool with having sex with other men with a commitment like that.
Also, I've heard of people trying to have an open relationship and it failing almost every time. Eventually someone gets hurt or just doesn't feel the "love" aspect.0