I feel really stuck right now. My husband is faithful, more than any man I have veer been with. The problem is, he has been chronically unemployed for YEARS and its forcing me to look elsewhere for, what I feel, are things he should be providing. My faith in us having a better financial life is gone...I even spoke of separating and he feels money is a dumb reason to break almost 10 years of being together. I love him for his faithfulness, but I hate him for having no ambition or drive. Is it me being unreasonable, or do I have good reason to bail? So, is a faithful husband better than one who cheats but is a good provider?
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Which Trait Makes a Better Husband: Faithful or Good Provider?
In my opinion a good provider as for me faithfulness in a guy is pretty much useless.
Is it me being unreasonable, or do I have good reason to bail?
I don't find it unreasonable to want a partner that is an equal contributor rather than a burden especially if you're in a country where two-income is basically needed for a household.2