My very serious boyfriend and I were invited to a wedding the same day he has a bachelor party. He is very close to the bachelor, but I think weddings are more important so I think he should attend the wedding. He disagrees. I don't want to be rude about it, but I think it is a couple event and we should both be there. It will be the third wedding I have to attend alone if he doesn't come.
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The bachelor party would be a lot more fun to him. Weddings themselves usually aren't anything too special, they're romantic and stuff but I can see why he'd rather go to a bachelor party, especially if it's for a close friend of his.
Would it be at all possible for him to do both? Go to the wedding with you and then head off to the bachelor party later?
It's tough to say what to do here, but honestly it seems like he's going to do whatever he wants, based on how you've described him.0