I know we are not economically ready to be engaged but I've decided I would like to be the one to propose when we do get to that point. I just think its important to put everything into consideration so I want hear some opinions, good and bad.
Some people say its a bad idea because it takes that moment away from the guy and he might get ridiculed. Would this really bother you?
My boyfriend has been in some failed engagements. Which I think makes him hesitant to ever try again. I kinda feel like proposing to him would be a way for me to display my committement and devotion to him. Generally I just think he deserves a special moment like that.
But for all I know he might see it differently. Like I'm pressuring him into making a committment his not ready for. Additionally it seems like most you guys out there just see marriage as a losing battle that would inevitably end in divorce.
So lets hear your guy's thoughts?
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I think the idea sounds really nice...I'm guessing that I'd feel flattered and incredibly loved, and who wouldn't want that?
But I'd also regret not being the one to propose. I kinda feel like that's one of my moments to shine and really be a man (that sounds silly to type, but you guys know what I mean). I think I'd really miss out on that.
I'd venture a guess that the majority (or even vast majority) of men would feel this way.0