We have been going out for a year and a half got engaged but he says he isn't ready to get married why get engaged if your not ready. Most woman would agree with me its obviously the next step I have asked numours times about it and keep getting the same answer. He will get married when he is ready.! If I bring the m word up he gets angry. I don't want to force him I would just like to know were I stand and if he isn't intressted in marring me at all why not say so why keep a ring on my finger if he isn't ready for the next step we have been engaged for 6 months now I feel by now he should be ready. So how do I approach this with out him getting angry ?
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The girls advice saying give him an ultimatum is terrible advice and you shouldn't listen.
Understand his pov first. He found someone he wants to spend his life with. However when you get married, things are much more different. It's permanent. Maybe he just wants to be at a certain stage in his life before he officially takes the plunge?
Does he have a career? Is he sure he wants to keep living in the area you both live in? There are per variants at play. He probably just gets defensive about it.
Have a calm discussion and say your ready to officially do it. Don't try to force him to feel a certain way, just say what you think.0