I want to get married soon and I want to marry my boyfriend. I haven't told him anything about it yet because I don't think he wants it to happen yet. I can wait but I really want it. I want to be with him.
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If he is the one and it is meant to be - what is the rush? I think you are getting your desires 'to be married' mixed with 'committing to this person long term'.
There is no harm in taking time to make sure you are making the right decision. Divorce is far more painful and complicated than breaking up. Its good you feel deeply in love and committed and if he feels the same way then he will feel the same way in 6 months or a year as he does today.
Just my.02. If he feels the same he will ask you when the time is right. It shouldn't be something you feel like rushing into. That almost makes it sound like you are afraid you might lose him to someone else and need to 'lock him down' which screams of insecurity and lack of trust that he will remain with you. If that is the case - this is already an issue that must be addressed before marriage.1