To have the woman they love be their favorite person to be with, their partner in crime, someone they turn to and share everything with and want to do everything with?
I was married to someone that wanted us to live separate lives. He could not understand why I wanted us to do anything together. He wanted me to have my own friends and my own life that had nothing to do with his, and he kept his friends and life separate and even SECRET from me.
I'd love to be like those old married couples that go everywhere together and do everything together. I feel like I may not even always WANT to do that, but just knowing this is something my significant other would like shows me a closeness we have even while apart. Of course, if my significant other wanted me to be there for something in particular then I certainly would be, and hope for this to be reciprocated.
I feel this is what a partnership is, and is it real and realistic?
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You're normal. He's weird.1