He sends mixed signals - should I give up or tell him how I feel? It's long but with a lot of detail.
In the past few months I've been able to spend a lot of time with this one guy, within these months although I've noticed him before, by being able to spend more time together I've started to like him a lot.
So it seems like he's into me, sometimes he'll compliment me or ask to me to work with him on something, just us. Now I've given him compliments before (and he's accepted) and have even asked him to work on something with me which he completely blew me off, he made up some excuse not to and then I guess after making him feel bad about it he agreed. That was very weird to me and I still don't understand that... Lately there's been some group outings some he's not attended and some he has. There was a outing and I asked him if was going and he seem pretty surprised that I was going too and even said to me that he didn't know that 'cool people' were going to be there. A few days before the outing I said that I would see him on that day and he played dumb like he didn't know what I was talking about and then said that he thought he would see before then but that he would definitely see me for the outing. Well he ignored me on the outing, totally weird! I don't understand. Another time he didn't come out and when I asked him why he didn't he told me that he 'didn't even know that I was going to be there'. What's that suppose to mean? That he would have came if he knew that I was there?
I see him quite often during the week but I don't always talk to him, I don't want to come off as stalker always being around and under him. Maybe I'm sending mixed signals too? One minute I'm flirting with him and the next not talking to him. We text each other sometimes and lately I've gotten quite a few smiles from him - almost kind of flirty like. If that's even possible. For example he make a statement and then end it with a smiley. ;-)
I don't know what to do, I really like him a lot and we seem to get along pretty good, we laugh and joke with each other even flirt a little. He has said to me before that he doesn't get woman and that he scared to take chances. Is that his way of telling me that he will never make a move? And it's up to me?
Our last outing I had to convince him to come (it didn't take too much to though) and when I asked him to sit closer to me he just wouldn't. He also said that he thought that I was going to sit at one end which is why he chose the other end to sit. He sounded like he was joking but what the hell is that suppose to mean?
I am TOTALLY lost and confused because I like him SO much but I want to stop liking him because he's driving me crazy with these signals. Just when I'm ready to give up he'll do something that keeps me holding on. Should I just tell him that I like him now or wait a little while longer being that it's only been a few months? Or should I wait and see if he makes a move? Please help!?!?
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