Long story short- I was seeing someone and we agreed to take things slow because I had gotten really hurt from my previous relationship (my ex basically used me for sex) so it made sense not to rush anything. But we ended up moving a lot faster than any of us expected. We recently got into a heated argument about "what are we" which ended in him saying that he really enjoys spending time with me but to avoid me feeling hurt/used, he suggested that we stop hooking up but continue to see each other.
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I think this is a great idea.
Until you guys can take it slow, which it can be really hard to do when you enjoy sex and have a person you're attracted to right there, then why not stop the hook ups?
Lots of people are in relationships and don't have sex or stick their hands all over the other person's body. This happens ALL the time. A friend is in a relationship like this right now. It just takes motivation and patience.
He is trying to respect you and he cares about you.
This is a good sign.1