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You may get to hear tips from people about flirting and talking to a lot of girls but that isn't it. Some of my friends talk and flirt with lots of girls but they are not players. One of them is gay so we can safely say that talking and flirting isn't a sign. It can be just being social.
It is all about the intent behind it. I do notice that the players I know would lie to get what they want. They also seem less patient. If they don't get what they want they are usually gone. But then again I am sure there are players that can wait forever.
A serious guy will have more interest in you personally and the average player will have that less. But some of the real Casanova's know how to handle that.
I find hard to tell what it is to look for. Instinctively can recognise one immediately but to describe one is not that easy.0