Everyone tells you to step outside your comfort zone and meet new people, but what if I don't want to?

I don't really have very many friends, but this is by complete choice. People often make me uncomfortable and I find a lot of conversation kind of boring.

Can anyone relate?

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  • This is sorta me, a couple of years back.

    I hated going out. I feared meeting friends. I worry about getting judged. I don't know how to start conversations. Activities seemed stupid or boring. There was a lot to dislike about the world.

    But somewhere along the way, I met a very good friend, who had other good friends, who made me feel comfortable in their midst. They asked me to hang out with them and gave me a semblance of social life. I found myself getting more used to it, and now I no longer go into a panic attack when I'm out in public.

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What Guys Said 6

  • I can completely relate. Everybody's always like, "Go meet some new people," and I'm like
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    It's funny how people assume I'm miserable because I'm not like them.

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  • then stay in yer CZ... u don't HAVE TO go out ;)

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  • Yeah but I kinda wish I wasn't like this :/

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  • If you want to meet people, friends, dates, etc. YOu have to get out there.

    If you don't want to meet people, new friends, dates, etc. Don't get out there.

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  • I relate. I can be a particularly outgoing person but most of the time I prefer to keep to myself and think alone.

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  • No ur insane there is a lot of cool people to meet

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What Girls Said 3

  • I can relate!

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  • Ignore what they say. I don't think being introverted is a bad thing

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  • Too many friends means too much drama

    I only have 2 main best friends

    and 2 friends

    and they are all in different cities

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