I don't have anything against it. I can and I would if I want and I know a lot of girls would too. It just pissed me off that some guys whine about us just waiting to be approached. Wtf is wrong with that? Wtf is wrong if we want to be complimented? And if we don't return the compliment, what's wrong with that? Do you do that to be complimented back?
Please now enlighten me, what's so special about you that we should be the one approaching first? Yeah this is because one guy keeps on generalizing and judging like he knows how hard it is to just wait. He don't appreciate how lucky he is that he can initiate, talk to a girl, show interest first without being judge because in most societies that's what is accepted.
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I believe that any person, guy or girl, who is single and looking, should not have the expectation that the opposite sex will approach them because they are just so awesome. If there is something you want in life, the expectation should be that you as an individual go get it. There's no excuse as to why a woman can't approach a guy she is interested in, or vice versa. There is nothing uniquely special about you as a woman which would make your expectation that the guy you are deeply interested in should be the one to approach you first simply because you are a woman. That's what I would call entitlement. Now if you are single and not looking, that's a different matter. But many times i see girls on here and in life who are distraught with their singleness situation, and lament about why there are no guys in their lives, and when you talk to them, the expectation of many of them is that the guy approach them. Just as you asked the question, "what's so special about you that we should be the one approaching first?" to guys, the same could be asked of these girls.1