If I've always been more of the follower and someone who usually listens, does that make me weak?
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You say that you're submissive and a follow but then you say that you don't let people take advantage of you. You're either one or the other. To be perfectly honest with you, if you let someone take advantage of you, they're going to keep taking advantage of you, regardless if you tell them "stop". You say you're "trying to change". You won't change if you "try." You will change if you DO. So don't "try" to change. Take control and DO the change. There's a big difference between trying and doing. Trying is testing the waters. People who try don't always succeed. Doing is putting your big girl pants on and realizing the potential drawbacks but doing it anyway. You never know if you never do.0