If a player type guy chases a girl for 7 years?

(Not an ex)
Is this love or Infatuation ? He was even divorced and went back to her?

  • Infatuation and boredom
    40% (4)50% (3)44% (7)Vote
  • Love and confusion
    60% (6)50% (3)56% (9)Vote
And you are? I'm a GirlI'm a Guy

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Not sure of anything here...
    He was married to her and then divorced her?
    And is trying to get back together?

    He might love you - in his own way, BUT, to him cheating isn't cheating. He WILL sleep with other women and won't think twice about you when he's doing it. 'Players' differentiate between love and sex. He'll have sex with other women but love you...
    I guess...

    Maybe not.

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What Guys Said 4

  • Stalker weirdo nut dangerous

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  • Haha, so many 'player' questions.

    I personally don't bother with women for more than 12 hours, so 7 years seems a stretch of the definition of 'player'

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    • Long game vs short game. Obviously it depends on what the 'chasing' entails, but if he's still fucking everthing he can get his dick in, player status is maintained.

      The 7 year gal might represent more difficult game is all.

    • @ArtDent There's difficult game, and then there's THAT. :D

      She'd have to be an 11/10 to justify such things.

  • More like Obsession. He needs to move on.

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  • Obsession, first off.

    And he doesn't sound like the player type at all.

    But whatever.

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What Girls Said 5

  • Neither. It's an obsession.

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    • Is that normal for that long?

    • No. It's not. Most people with common sense would drop it way before 7 years.

  • Maybe he's changed and thinks that he finally found the right one for him and decide to not to be a player anymore. Sometimes player change (I don't how though). It might be just a obsession though.

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  • It seems like all if the above lol.

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  • I have no idea what it is. It sounds like obsession though.

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  • I've met some like him, they still pop back up even now, even ones from my teen years 10 years ago. But yea, these guys aren't normal. They dont have normal relationships with other girls and a lot are contrilling and think normal girls behavior is slutty or that she's a hoe but not a proper hoe. Whatever is, they're just usually not normal and don't have normal ideas on relationships or girls.

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