What should a person do to change someone to be better?

you see that person getting worse and worse everyday than the day before, and you always wish them to get better not worse what steps should i take to let them change? i know they should want it for themselves but i feel like they're in a coma and need someone to wake them up, so please tell me cause i can't stand seeing them like that.


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Most Helpful Girl

  • Show them that they're getting worse, and what will happen if they don't start changing for the better. You can't really force them to change.

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    • They have to change themselves, you can't do it for them

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    • Yeah, definitely. It depends on their attitude but, if they tried and failed multiple times they will need a bit of positive encouragement.

    • Yes, exactly, thanks a lot. :D

What Guys Said 2

  • quite simply, nothing. if you dont like or can't tollerate how someone is then find someone that does suit you

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    • but you do care about them a lot and as i said i can't stand seeing them changing to the worse and do nothing.

    • well tell them how you feel but unless they really understand and agree i can't see you changing them. people need to change for themselves. i have had women try to change me in the past because of my porn/masturbation addiction but i am happy the way i am

    • Okay, thanks for your advice.

  • You can't change them, only they can.

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What Girls Said 2

  • help them through things

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  • You can't change people.

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