I'm just wondering this, but I know some friends who are really unique (like loyal, awkward, shy, emotionless in one person etc.) And guys tend to avoid them. (one of them is my friend's crush.) Like is there something bad about it?
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The bad part is how it makes you feel. Almost like afraid to be noticed, wanting to reach out to others, but not knowing how, or what to say, always feeling like an outsider, always alone in a crowd. Never really comfortable. It hurts to smile because you are so anxious it always feels forced, and it looks that way too.
There's nothing wrong with being introverted. The world needs more of us!
- introverts do better in 1 on 1 settings.
- we are great listeners. Practise this.
- also practise smiling, until it comes more naturally
- keep a private journal maybe about things you are grateful for.
- mindfulness meditation
Be kind to yourself.0